Advice for white men dating black women
But before we go any further, to be clear, Tiffany Jolene has no issue with interracial dating, but she does have an issue with Black men who date White women because they are “more submissive.” Peep what she said on Facebook below: “If your primary reason for dating White women is because you’re under the self centered delusion that they are more ‘submissive’ and understanding of your inherent refusal to get your s*** together without the help of a romantic partner, I am not the Caucasian for you,” said Tiffany Jolene in a Facebook post.“You’re likely to be intentionally targeting a certain brand of White women because they’re as not privy to your bull*** as Black women; having been raised around or by you,” she says. They are much more ‘difficult’ for you to manipulate.” The post, which can be read in full here, didn’t go over too well with readers.Relationship advice you can use from 35 otherwise distracting actresses. Now stop staring and go be a better man."Women are innately self-conscious. On a bad day, I look in the mirror and see my ten-pound-heavier alter ego. On a really bad day, Bertha sees her two-hundred-pound-heavier alter ego.“I didn’t address White men or White women because they’re not in my inbox or in my timeline doing any of those things, I have already successfully weeded those people out of my life and out of my spaces.” Some folks praised Jolene’s actions, but others accused her of being racist, which she also addressed.“The assumptions that I’m racist are disappointing.Blanks (who by the way is married to a Black woman with multiple college degrees) continues “More than half of married black women who have graduated from college have a less-educated husband who did not.Yet despite the shortage of black male peers, black women do not marry men of other races.
It seems that Black women have bought into this sensationalistic message, paving the way for a small army of (allegedly) well-intentioned Black men peddling relationship advice to Black women to become wildly successful (and wealthy) all for teaching us how to think more like them while acting like us.I know from personal experience that two people from different worlds will have to work extra hard to understand what it means to be in their significant other’s racial shoes.